Ariel Niu
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How to be CONVINCING (with your energy)
How to present confident and convincing in live social interactions, from the inside out.
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0:00 What is our Energy?
1:17 Superiority/Inferiority/Balanced
3:34 Detached Confidence
5:13 Practicing Balance
8:31 Intend and Let Go
11:01 Thoughts create Reality
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*ABOUT:*
My name is Ariel Niu. I share views on social dynamics through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. I love creating content on human interactions, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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Відео

How to be LESS REACTIVE
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In every moment, you're programming yourself. Now you're just becoming conscious of it. *IT'S ALL A GAME OF ENERGY ECO-TOTE:* shop.arielniuviews.com/products/energy-eco-tote *GET 1:1 COACHING:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu *MORE:* Workplace Boundaries Scripts - bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Get an Energy Reading - shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu Livestreams - shop.ariel...
How to be SHARP + CONFIDENT (without AGGRESSION)
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Techniques and examples for you to be sharp, with confidence and balance. *DOWNLOAD SCENARIO APP FOR FREE:* scenario.app.link/itqPCuK1FJb Scripts visualizations to help you prep for upcoming social interactions. *REPLAY MY LIVE Q&A ON SHARP CONFIDENCE:* ua-cam.com/users/livel0GY4KXVXQY?feature=share *BOOK 1:1 COACHING WITH ME:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 0:00 When does Sharpness backfire? 0:...
How to be SOFT + CONFIDENT (without PEOPLE-PLEASING)
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This is how you do it from the inside out. *LEARN A NEW LANGUAGE WITH LINGODA:* Get a 7-day free trial 20% off your first month: try.lingoda.com/Ariel *BOOK 1:1 COACHING:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 0:00 People-Pleasing vs Kindness 1:57 Genuine Compliments 3:19 Know Your Wants / Needs 4:04 Decisive / Definitive Communication 7:41 Sharp / Soft Dynamics 8:40 Body Language 9:37 Facial Expressio...
Why your BOUNDARIES aren't working
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You are attached to nobody. *GET THE WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS GUIDE:* bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts *BOOK 1:1 COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu *Study Notes:* - TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS. - REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others. - To resolve CONFUSION: Go to...
How to be CHARISMATIC in Group Conversations
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Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, and influences on others. *Study Notes:* - INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sara...
How to transform PRESENTATION NERVES
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You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, interactions and influences on others. *Study Notes* - Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat). - Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity wi...
7 TIPS TO BE A BETTER CONVERSATIONALIST
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We all listen in a conversation, but how many of us show that we're listening? Notice the dynamics in your next few conversations with others. If we want to be seen and heard, we first make them feel seen and heard. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, responses. *Techniques:* - Reiteration - address the story OR emotions ...
How to be SHARP/SOFT with CONFIDENCE
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Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR. GET A 1-MONTH FREE TRIAL WITH SKILLSHARE: skl.sh/newviewswitharielniu03241 The SkillShare Learning Path I am taking is called 'ChatGPT for Creatives', join me :) Tips: - Understand and accept your natural expressions - Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions - Remove reactiveness...
How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING
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How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING
How to be NONCHALANT with BALANCE
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How to be NONCHALANT with BALANCE
'Love on the Spectrum' reveals matrix of socializing
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'Love on the Spectrum' reveals matrix of socializing
How to be intentional with others
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How to be intentional with others
PROGRAM your MIND using MANTRAS
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PROGRAM your MIND using MANTRAS
How to SPEAK with POTENCY + POWER
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How to SPEAK with POTENCY POWER
HOW TO KEEP FLOW IN CONVERSATIONS
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HOW TO KEEP FLOW IN CONVERSATIONS
Balancing SHARP + SOFT Expressions
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Balancing SHARP SOFT Expressions
How to Resolve ANY CONFLICT
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How to Resolve ANY CONFLICT
How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING
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How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING
How to hold EYE-CONTACT
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How to hold EYE-CONTACT
How to Resolve TENSION with EYE-LEVEL ENERGY
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How to Resolve TENSION with EYE-LEVEL ENERGY
How to be SHARP and SOFT socially
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How to be SHARP and SOFT socially
my psychedelic experiences (2023 update)
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my psychedelic experiences (2023 update)
How to make your biggest dreams in life actually happen
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How to make your biggest dreams in life actually happen
WHEN YOU CAN'T DECIDE ON SOMETHING
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WHEN YOU CAN'T DECIDE ON SOMETHING
HOW TO SAY LESS with MORE CONFIDENCE
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HOW TO SAY LESS with MORE CONFIDENCE
HOW TO UNTANGLE ANY EMOTION
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HOW TO UNTANGLE ANY EMOTION
MY TIPS FOR TRIPS (processes to use psychedelics intentionally)
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MY TIPS FOR TRIPS (processes to use psychedelics intentionally)
How to get yourself OUT OF A RUT
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How to get yourself OUT OF A RUT
LSD healed my eating disorder
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LSD healed my eating disorder

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @vae5649
    @vae5649 11 годин тому

    I love this !!! Thank you ❤

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 13 годин тому

    You’re the best ❤❤❤

  • @lunallewellyndelamorte5235
    @lunallewellyndelamorte5235 14 годин тому

    Very happy to see you posting content on UA-cam. ❤️ Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼

  • @bruceparker805
    @bruceparker805 16 годин тому

    I find with toddlers its complex because they can be easily fooled too and dont necessarily pickup when as parents you have just been arguing. They get randomly drawn by someone with bad energy too. Its complicated!

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 15 годин тому

      I feel like it would only be complex if you’re encountering a baby with recent trauma already lol. But in general they don’t have the conscious awareness of WHAT they are sensing but they are hyper aware OF their senses without any conditioning of needing to please or mask. So they are still an excellent source to test out how your inner state can be sensed externally by others.

  • @cajuncajun183
    @cajuncajun183 20 годин тому

    Hi Ariel, i like your podcasts and you are very liked on Instagram because they help manage emotions and language in a deliberate way that stop misalignment. I hope it's not a big ask but I think It could be really helpful if you could provide specific scenarios and how you'd react to those situations in your way in addition to explaining reasons. Just my opinion❤

  • @PsychedelicActualization
    @PsychedelicActualization 20 годин тому

    Good one!

  • @nicoleta1882
    @nicoleta1882 День тому

    The best thing that helped me is 1. Always write down your intention when you go into a meeting and how I want to be perceived. This helps me calm my reactivity and redirect me to what’s important. It’s especially effective if the meeting is with people that I know can be difficult or if the topic is a heavy one. 2. I put a sticky note on my door, that asks me: what’s my intention and what’s my energy every time I exit my house. This helps me be the person I want to be even when I’m feeling down, upset or whatever. Other people should not suffer from my bad attitude just because I’m having a bad day.

  • @Mona_227
    @Mona_227 День тому

    Are people able to read energy through text? Also, thank you for posting on UA-cam! I've deleted tiktok for a while now and I always liked your content, I'm so happy that you post here now ✨❤️

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews День тому

      Yeah I can definitely feel energy through text, but it does miss quite a bit of context. And I’m so happy you’re here :)

    • @Mona_227
      @Mona_227 День тому

      @@ArielNiuViews Thank you! <3

  • @ms.m.2132
    @ms.m.2132 День тому

    Thank you 🎉

  • @ArielNiuViews
    @ArielNiuViews День тому

    Giving something for FREE is always convincing ;) *Get a 7-day free trial to learn a new language with Lingoda* (+ 20% off your first month): try.lingoda.com/ArielNiu_June Promo Code: *20ARIEL*

  • @muurlegacy4465
    @muurlegacy4465 День тому

    Chi control. Love it

  • @elluna-here
    @elluna-here 2 дні тому

    Girl, every video has helped me A LOT. I am so grateful for finding your channel.

  • @affanahmed615
    @affanahmed615 3 дні тому

    Great video

  • @Rose-oh6uk
    @Rose-oh6uk 5 днів тому

    I'm obsessed with ur channel life changing!

  • @nidhirathore4911
    @nidhirathore4911 5 днів тому

    life saver ngl

  • @TheDon.333
    @TheDon.333 5 днів тому

    Underrated 💯🤌🏿

  • @user-zg3lp3gw7i
    @user-zg3lp3gw7i 6 днів тому

    Who, I feel like I can nail society with your perspective. Thank you for this view point!

  • @elluna-here
    @elluna-here 7 днів тому

    Helpful and Informative as always.

  • @Crypt0Crossf1re
    @Crypt0Crossf1re 13 днів тому

    I get down with this 😊 30:13

  • @wilwad
    @wilwad 13 днів тому

    From Mars indeed

  • @flor.7797
    @flor.7797 13 днів тому

    🙂‍↔️

  • @oscarross4337
    @oscarross4337 14 днів тому

    I def expirence those synchronized moments

  • @tomynextgeneration
    @tomynextgeneration 14 днів тому

    I wanna be your friend so badddd😂😅

  • @woodengirl127
    @woodengirl127 14 днів тому

    I’ve always struggled with social interaction and perception and your channel has literally changed my life thank you so much

  • @D35p3r4d0
    @D35p3r4d0 14 днів тому

    I have been a practicing Stoic for quite some time now, and oddly enough I have only recently thought about acting nonchalantly about life. Perhaps that is an indication that I have been doing wrong, or perhaps this is merely the next stage of that journey. Either way, I was very happy to have found your video. Lots of great advice. Thank you.

  • @Divine-FemEnergy
    @Divine-FemEnergy 14 днів тому

    I’m going into my first social situation this weekend for the first time in months! I’m grateful for all of the wonderful lessons I’ve learned from this channel. I feel ready, thank you Ariel ❤

  • @Divine-FemEnergy
    @Divine-FemEnergy 15 днів тому

    I recently found this channel and I am so grateful! It has helped me so much. As I just watched this video, I got a lot of great take always. One thing I don’t understand, never really understood, is why people find enjoyment in making fun of others? Is there a version of this that’s not just being acceptably mean? I’ve never enjoyed the idea of making fun of others and I don’t do it and I don’t like receiving it. Even as a child I always thought it was a way to be mean but in a tolerable way. I typically walk away from this. As I’ve watched many, many 😂 of these videos from Ariel I don’t feel mean energy, so I’m truly curious as to what is the point? And is the reference to making fun in a nice way? Does anyone have examples of this that’s not just talking about someone’s hair or clothes or personality in a mean way but its ok “its just a joke”

  • @suvendroseal1724
    @suvendroseal1724 15 днів тому

    Need more live Q&As. Thank you for this Ariel.

  • @bryanthernandez8089
    @bryanthernandez8089 16 днів тому

    Timothy Leary and Alan Watts produced a good amount of work (videos you can watch on UA-cam) regarding psychedelics.

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 16 днів тому

      Love Alan watts, will look into Leary!

    • @bryanthernandez8089
      @bryanthernandez8089 10 днів тому

      It's crazy, the impact he made that has traveled through time. He was a friend of Ram Dass.🪆

  • @sana-gq2ur
    @sana-gq2ur 16 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LaGataSolar
    @LaGataSolar 16 днів тому

    I have a question! what are your big 3?? :)

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 16 днів тому

      Pisces sun, Aries moon, Taurus rising

    • @LaGataSolar
      @LaGataSolar 15 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews I felt that Aries moon and Pisces energy, I have an Aries moon as well! it’s just so magnetic, I’m never bored listening to you 🫶🏽

  • @henlohenlo689
    @henlohenlo689 16 днів тому

    influencing people is like influencing dogs. you find out what they want or likely to want or need and you give it to them. it's very simple. most people need food and housing and want items. when there is alot of people wanting stuff and few people providing you have negogiation leverage and you can influence them to give more wealth to you for what you provide. it's comes down to economics and under humans in general, AND understanding the machine of the society that you live in. and the world at large. it takes deep education and understanding, alot of times HOW YOU LOOKS or energy you generate barely matters. but alot of people rookie to life put all their skill points into looks and energy and that kind of stuff, it's helpful but keep in mind there is much deeper aspects of society to become aware of.

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 16 днів тому

      Knowing what people want is the basics. Being the one they choose to work with or exchange with or engage with comes all through your ability to present yourself.

    • @henlohenlo689
      @henlohenlo689 15 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews one of my own story. i cant get jobs as mcdonalds i cant present myself well. so struggled alot in my early to mid 20s. the competition was too high with other people who present themselves well. but these people are fighting over pennies. i later became a trucker i seen even seen my boss first year working. they didnt care at all what i looked like or how presented myself. then 1 year working there in 2013. i had 24k saved in the bank. in todays money that would be like saving 48k in the bank after expenses. back then good 10 year old used cars would cost 2k, today good 10 year old cars are 6k to 12k. alot of inflation since then. i had 3 cars back then cause used cars was so cheap and my 24k went alot further. i was paying 500 on rent and today im paying 1200. it had nothing to do with how i looked. money slowed into my life because i was choosing to do work that was more impactful and giving people their primal needs as humans. which is getting rarer.

  • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
    @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 16 днів тому

    I like how she ignored me😂

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 16 днів тому

      let go for me to come

    • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
      @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 16 днів тому

      Can be true but also I mean not letting go can allow you to get the things you want

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 16 днів тому

      @@SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD balance baby, intend without attachment and see I'm responding now ;)

    • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
      @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 16 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews 👍👁️👄👁️

  • @thedarkfuture01101
    @thedarkfuture01101 16 днів тому

    It was amazing thank you

  • @missgoodpussluva
    @missgoodpussluva 17 днів тому

    Love the longform content , plz keep uploading the full lives !

  • @MassiveJetGrind
    @MassiveJetGrind 17 днів тому

    Thanks for the latest view, Ms. Niu.

  • @daniella2929
    @daniella2929 18 днів тому

    ariel niu, i just realised that you look like a bratz doll

  • @wellnessempowers
    @wellnessempowers 18 днів тому

    Youre speaking facts!! I resonate 💕

  • @lulabylagoon
    @lulabylagoon 19 днів тому

    ‘What’s right for me will come. What’s wrong for me will go’ I’m letting go of the attachments I have to the people that have left my life so that I can attract what is meant for me. If I’m always looking behind I will miss the things meant for me, ahead of me.

    • @lulabylagoon
      @lulabylagoon 19 днів тому

      ‘What’s meant for me is ahead of me’

  • @user-fn2pt4ui1p
    @user-fn2pt4ui1p 20 днів тому

    so that's why people often like me interesting

  • @EarthTones383
    @EarthTones383 20 днів тому

    thanks! 😊

  • @anushree.sanjai
    @anushree.sanjai 21 день тому

    I read that as how to be less attractive and instantly clicked-

  • @thehappyproject7117
    @thehappyproject7117 21 день тому

    I had mine recently and I’m not religious but I see why some people become religious after it I think religions are different ways that humans interpret laws of the universe and the meaning of life. I will share my experience once I have processed everything. I think it’s very important that people understand that each awakening is similar but different for each person. So it’s important that you don’t send the wrong message to others. Everyone is on their own journey so we can interfere with others journey. I was also scared to talk about it because I don’t want to sound crazy.

  • @tivaa.7293
    @tivaa.7293 21 день тому

    I really loved this live, Ariel! Thank yoy for all of the helpful tips/advice for staying centered. This came to me right on time. This is the first live I've ever watched from you and I really enjoyed how down to earth you are and how passionate/excited you are to share your knowledge and experiences. Thank you!

  • @breakfastclosed
    @breakfastclosed 21 день тому

    "...deciding who you want to be, the limits of your interaction with them, and be it" totally, and got to practice this just today! I ran into someone I hadn't seen in a few years, in a situation where there had always been gossip behind backs, nothing life-altering but enough for me to distance myself from her. I took the opportunity to just sit and listen to her and not disclose any more than I wanted to. when I left, I found myself questioning her enthusiasm to see me and its authenticity, when I realized I'm not there to make judgements or assumptions about her motives, just to show up the way I want to, and be unbothered by whichever way the breeze blows.

  • @Moon_child25
    @Moon_child25 21 день тому

    Where do u announce your lives? Next time I wanna be on time 😍🥹

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 21 день тому

      Follow my stories + join my community channel on IG 🥰

  • @rahileayar9101
    @rahileayar9101 21 день тому

    I hope I see you in the next live 😔

  • @jade6957
    @jade6957 21 день тому

    Thank you for sharing your backstory of how your passion awakened for social dynamics. I, too, have a strong emotional intelligence and always notice people’s intentions different from their words and it can be confusing if you don’t speak, or take action with intent. Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

  • @AleLP8
    @AleLP8 21 день тому

    yeahh let's reconnect those niurons ・*:.。🧠。.:*・

  • @ArmoredSpeedster
    @ArmoredSpeedster 21 день тому

    Very insightful