Ariel Niu
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How to INFLUENCE others from your THOUGHTS
How I learned social dynamics, my experiences of our interconnectedness and how I apply it in social settings, and how to try this for yourself.
*FREE STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE:* bit.ly/niuviewssourcepart1
*LIVE Q&A REPLAY: Microdosing, Reactive Thoughts/Emotions, Balance in Relationships:* ua-cam.com/users/live9QAZZTi3OO4
*BOOK 1:1 COACHING WITH ME:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu
*MORE:*
Workplace Boundaries Scripts - bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts
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0:00 My past social frustrations
3:59 My self-love journey
4:56 How we are interconnected
6:43 Balancing thoughts/emotions
10:15 How to influence others from within
14:34 Protect your energy
16:13 @niu.views source program
*ABOUT:*
My name is Ariel Niu. I share views on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
#lifehacks #emotions #communicationskills #selfdevelopment #podcasts #emotionalintelligence #socialskills #socialdynamics #confidence #peoplepleaser #selfmastery #communicationtips #relationships #socialanxiety #niuviews
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Відео

How to be LESS REACTIVE
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In every moment, you're programming yourself. Now you're just becoming conscious of it. *IT'S ALL A GAME OF ENERGY ECO-TOTE:* shop.arielniuviews.com/products/energy-eco-tote *GET 1:1 COACHING:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu *MORE:* Workplace Boundaries Scripts - bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Get an Energy Reading - shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu Livestreams - shop.ariel...
How to be SHARP + CONFIDENT (without AGGRESSION)
Переглядів 4,3 тис.21 день тому
Techniques and examples for you to be sharp, with confidence and balance. *DOWNLOAD SCENARIO APP FOR FREE:* scenario.app.link/itqPCuK1FJb Scripts visualizations to help you prep for upcoming social interactions. *REPLAY MY LIVE Q&A ON SHARP CONFIDENCE:* ua-cam.com/users/livel0GY4KXVXQY?feature=share *BOOK 1:1 COACHING WITH ME:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 0:00 When does Sharpness backfire? 0:...
How to be SOFT + CONFIDENT (without PEOPLE-PLEASING)
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This is how you do it from the inside out. *LEARN A NEW LANGUAGE WITH LINGODA:* Get a 7-day free trial 20% off your first month: try.lingoda.com/Ariel *JOIN MY MAY 11TH SOCIALIZING WORKSHOP:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/SocializewithArielNiu *JOIN MY MAY 12TH SOCIALIZING WORKSHOP:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/SocializewithArielNiu2 *BOOK 1:1 COACHING:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 0:00 People-Plea...
Why your BOUNDARIES aren't working
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You are attached to nobody. *GET THE WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS GUIDE:* bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts *BOOK 1:1 COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu *Study Notes:* - TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS. - REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others. - To resolve CONFUSION: Go to...
How to be CHARISMATIC in Group Conversations
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Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, and influences on others. *Study Notes:* - INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sara...
How to transform PRESENTATION NERVES
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You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, interactions and influences on others. *Study Notes* - Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat). - Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity wi...
7 TIPS TO BE A BETTER CONVERSATIONALIST
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We all listen in a conversation, but how many of us show that we're listening? Notice the dynamics in your next few conversations with others. If we want to be seen and heard, we first make them feel seen and heard. *BOOK COACHING:* shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, responses. *Techniques:* - Reiteration - address the story OR emotions ...
How to be SHARP/SOFT with CONFIDENCE
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Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR. GET A 1-MONTH FREE TRIAL WITH SKILLSHARE: skl.sh/newviewswitharielniu03241 The SkillShare Learning Path I am taking is called 'ChatGPT for Creatives', join me :) Tips: - Understand and accept your natural expressions - Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions - Remove reactiveness...
How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING
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How to be DYNAMIC when SPEAKING
How to be NONCHALANT with BALANCE
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How to be NONCHALANT with BALANCE
'Love on the Spectrum' reveals matrix of socializing
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'Love on the Spectrum' reveals matrix of socializing
How to be intentional with others
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How to be intentional with others
PROGRAM your MIND using MANTRAS
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PROGRAM your MIND using MANTRAS
How to SPEAK with POTENCY + POWER
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How to SPEAK with POTENCY POWER
HOW TO KEEP FLOW IN CONVERSATIONS
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HOW TO KEEP FLOW IN CONVERSATIONS
Balancing SHARP + SOFT Expressions
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Balancing SHARP SOFT Expressions
How to Resolve ANY CONFLICT
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How to Resolve ANY CONFLICT
How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING
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How to avoid PEOPLE-PLEASING
How to hold EYE-CONTACT
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How to hold EYE-CONTACT
How to Resolve TENSION with EYE-LEVEL ENERGY
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How to Resolve TENSION with EYE-LEVEL ENERGY
How to be SHARP and SOFT socially
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How to be SHARP and SOFT socially
my psychedelic experiences (2023 update)
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my psychedelic experiences (2023 update)
How to make your biggest dreams in life actually happen
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How to make your biggest dreams in life actually happen
WHEN YOU CAN'T DECIDE ON SOMETHING
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WHEN YOU CAN'T DECIDE ON SOMETHING
HOW TO SAY LESS with MORE CONFIDENCE
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HOW TO SAY LESS with MORE CONFIDENCE
HOW TO UNTANGLE ANY EMOTION
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HOW TO UNTANGLE ANY EMOTION
MY TIPS FOR TRIPS (processes to use psychedelics intentionally)
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MY TIPS FOR TRIPS (processes to use psychedelics intentionally)
How to get yourself OUT OF A RUT
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How to get yourself OUT OF A RUT
LSD healed my eating disorder
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LSD healed my eating disorder

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Rose-oh6uk
    @Rose-oh6uk 14 годин тому

    I'm obsessed with ur channel life changing!

  • @nidhirathore4911
    @nidhirathore4911 16 годин тому

    life saver ngl

  • @TheDon.333
    @TheDon.333 День тому

    Underrated 💯🤌🏿

  • @user-zg3lp3gw7i
    @user-zg3lp3gw7i 2 дні тому

    Who, I feel like I can nail society with your perspective. Thank you for this view point!

  • @elluna-here
    @elluna-here 3 дні тому

    Helpful and Informative as always.

  • @aneitawu1540
    @aneitawu1540 3 дні тому

    You’re so real

  • @aneitawu1540
    @aneitawu1540 3 дні тому

    Wow I really admire the way you communicate with the world! I resonate with the first part and the second expose powerful tools, thank you I love your content soo fucking much

  • @ArielNiuViews
    @ArielNiuViews 8 днів тому

    The live got cut off, you can watch the remaining 30min in my subscriptions: shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships *If you're in Canada, try Neurodose for microdosing, and Resolve for CBD:* NEURODOSE: Save 30% on all orders with code 'ARIEL30' - neurodose.ca/?rfsn=7390154.2a56748 RESOLVECBD: Save 15% on all orders with code 'NIUVIEWS15' - resolvecbd.co *HOW TO INFLUENCE OTHERS FROM THOUGHTS/EMOTIONS:* *UA-cam BREAKDOWN:* ua-cam.com/video/-OuZ_tF_qSQ/v-deo.html *TEXT BREAKDOWN:* bit.ly/niuviewssourcepart1

  • @harshitadubey850
    @harshitadubey850 8 днів тому

    THANK YOU SO MUCH i think about this so often and I haven’t met anyone that’s openly addressed it

  • @lasis5496
    @lasis5496 8 днів тому

    It's cool to see that you're coming into the first topic with a different energy, it feels congruent to exactly what you're talking about.

  • @zulufighter
    @zulufighter 8 днів тому

    This is golllldddddds, i will rewatch this many times, words cant express the appreciation i have for your passion in making this

  • @zulufighter
    @zulufighter 8 днів тому

    This is hella interesting, youre expressing the essence of this sorta stuff so beautifully, i got some genuine shivers❄️

  • @Crypt0Crossf1re
    @Crypt0Crossf1re 8 днів тому

    I get down with this 😊 30:13

  • @hebbl6648
    @hebbl6648 9 днів тому

    You got the prettiest smile

  • @evanliveshere
    @evanliveshere 9 днів тому

    I’m looking forward to hearing more about your self love journey ❤

  • @wilwad
    @wilwad 9 днів тому

    From Mars indeed

  • @flor.7797
    @flor.7797 9 днів тому

    🙂‍↔️

  • @kitm141
    @kitm141 9 днів тому

    Thank you for providing the transcript and breakdown - I know it takes work but it makes your really accessible for some of your neurodiverse followers, like me. I really appreciate what you do!

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 9 днів тому

      you're welcome! I'll be providing documentation for all the videos from my source program this summer, which you'll find info about in the doc :).

  • @ArielNiuViews
    @ArielNiuViews 9 днів тому

    *FREE STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE:* bit.ly/niuviewssourcepart1 (breakdown on how to influence others from your thoughts/emotions.)

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 9 днів тому

      Watch my livestream replay on this topic: ua-cam.com/users/live9QAZZTi3OO4

  • @oscarross4337
    @oscarross4337 9 днів тому

    I def expirence those synchronized moments

  • @tomynextgeneration
    @tomynextgeneration 9 днів тому

    I wanna be your friend so badddd😂😅

  • @woodengirl127
    @woodengirl127 10 днів тому

    I’ve always struggled with social interaction and perception and your channel has literally changed my life thank you so much

  • @D35p3r4d0
    @D35p3r4d0 10 днів тому

    I have been a practicing Stoic for quite some time now, and oddly enough I have only recently thought about acting nonchalantly about life. Perhaps that is an indication that I have been doing wrong, or perhaps this is merely the next stage of that journey. Either way, I was very happy to have found your video. Lots of great advice. Thank you.

  • @Divine-FemEnergy
    @Divine-FemEnergy 10 днів тому

    I’m going into my first social situation this weekend for the first time in months! I’m grateful for all of the wonderful lessons I’ve learned from this channel. I feel ready, thank you Ariel ❤

  • @Divine-FemEnergy
    @Divine-FemEnergy 11 днів тому

    I recently found this channel and I am so grateful! It has helped me so much. As I just watched this video, I got a lot of great take always. One thing I don’t understand, never really understood, is why people find enjoyment in making fun of others? Is there a version of this that’s not just being acceptably mean? I’ve never enjoyed the idea of making fun of others and I don’t do it and I don’t like receiving it. Even as a child I always thought it was a way to be mean but in a tolerable way. I typically walk away from this. As I’ve watched many, many 😂 of these videos from Ariel I don’t feel mean energy, so I’m truly curious as to what is the point? And is the reference to making fun in a nice way? Does anyone have examples of this that’s not just talking about someone’s hair or clothes or personality in a mean way but its ok “its just a joke”

  • @suvendroseal1724
    @suvendroseal1724 11 днів тому

    Need more live Q&As. Thank you for this Ariel.

  • @bryanthernandez8089
    @bryanthernandez8089 11 днів тому

    Timothy Leary and Alan Watts produced a good amount of work (videos you can watch on UA-cam) regarding psychedelics.

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 11 днів тому

      Love Alan watts, will look into Leary!

    • @bryanthernandez8089
      @bryanthernandez8089 5 днів тому

      It's crazy, the impact he made that has traveled through time. He was a friend of Ram Dass.🪆

  • @sana-gq2ur
    @sana-gq2ur 11 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LaGataSolar
    @LaGataSolar 11 днів тому

    I have a question! what are your big 3?? :)

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 11 днів тому

      Pisces sun, Aries moon, Taurus rising

    • @LaGataSolar
      @LaGataSolar 11 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews I felt that Aries moon and Pisces energy, I have an Aries moon as well! it’s just so magnetic, I’m never bored listening to you 🫶🏽

  • @henlohenlo689
    @henlohenlo689 12 днів тому

    influencing people is like influencing dogs. you find out what they want or likely to want or need and you give it to them. it's very simple. most people need food and housing and want items. when there is alot of people wanting stuff and few people providing you have negogiation leverage and you can influence them to give more wealth to you for what you provide. it's comes down to economics and under humans in general, AND understanding the machine of the society that you live in. and the world at large. it takes deep education and understanding, alot of times HOW YOU LOOKS or energy you generate barely matters. but alot of people rookie to life put all their skill points into looks and energy and that kind of stuff, it's helpful but keep in mind there is much deeper aspects of society to become aware of.

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 11 днів тому

      Knowing what people want is the basics. Being the one they choose to work with or exchange with or engage with comes all through your ability to present yourself.

    • @henlohenlo689
      @henlohenlo689 11 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews one of my own story. i cant get jobs as mcdonalds i cant present myself well. so struggled alot in my early to mid 20s. the competition was too high with other people who present themselves well. but these people are fighting over pennies. i later became a trucker i seen even seen my boss first year working. they didnt care at all what i looked like or how presented myself. then 1 year working there in 2013. i had 24k saved in the bank. in todays money that would be like saving 48k in the bank after expenses. back then good 10 year old used cars would cost 2k, today good 10 year old cars are 6k to 12k. alot of inflation since then. i had 3 cars back then cause used cars was so cheap and my 24k went alot further. i was paying 500 on rent and today im paying 1200. it had nothing to do with how i looked. money slowed into my life because i was choosing to do work that was more impactful and giving people their primal needs as humans. which is getting rarer.

  • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
    @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 12 днів тому

    I like how she ignored me😂

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 12 днів тому

      let go for me to come

    • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
      @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 12 днів тому

      Can be true but also I mean not letting go can allow you to get the things you want

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 12 днів тому

      @@SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD balance baby, intend without attachment and see I'm responding now ;)

    • @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD
      @SpiralzonehatesdonutsXD 12 днів тому

      @@ArielNiuViews 👍👁️👄👁️

  • @thedarkfuture01101
    @thedarkfuture01101 12 днів тому

    It was amazing thank you

  • @missgoodpussluva
    @missgoodpussluva 12 днів тому

    Love the longform content , plz keep uploading the full lives !

  • @MassiveJetGrind
    @MassiveJetGrind 13 днів тому

    Thanks for the latest view, Ms. Niu.

  • @daniella2929
    @daniella2929 13 днів тому

    ariel niu, i just realised that you look like a bratz doll

  • @wellnessempowers
    @wellnessempowers 14 днів тому

    Youre speaking facts!! I resonate 💕

  • @lulabylagoon
    @lulabylagoon 15 днів тому

    ‘What’s right for me will come. What’s wrong for me will go’ I’m letting go of the attachments I have to the people that have left my life so that I can attract what is meant for me. If I’m always looking behind I will miss the things meant for me, ahead of me.

    • @lulabylagoon
      @lulabylagoon 15 днів тому

      ‘What’s meant for me is ahead of me’

  • @user-fn2pt4ui1p
    @user-fn2pt4ui1p 16 днів тому

    so that's why people often like me interesting

  • @EarthTones383
    @EarthTones383 16 днів тому

    thanks! 😊

  • @anushree.sanjai
    @anushree.sanjai 16 днів тому

    I read that as how to be less attractive and instantly clicked-

  • @thehappyproject7117
    @thehappyproject7117 16 днів тому

    I had mine recently and I’m not religious but I see why some people become religious after it I think religions are different ways that humans interpret laws of the universe and the meaning of life. I will share my experience once I have processed everything. I think it’s very important that people understand that each awakening is similar but different for each person. So it’s important that you don’t send the wrong message to others. Everyone is on their own journey so we can interfere with others journey. I was also scared to talk about it because I don’t want to sound crazy.

  • @tivaa.7293
    @tivaa.7293 16 днів тому

    I really loved this live, Ariel! Thank yoy for all of the helpful tips/advice for staying centered. This came to me right on time. This is the first live I've ever watched from you and I really enjoyed how down to earth you are and how passionate/excited you are to share your knowledge and experiences. Thank you!

  • @breakfastclosed
    @breakfastclosed 16 днів тому

    "...deciding who you want to be, the limits of your interaction with them, and be it" totally, and got to practice this just today! I ran into someone I hadn't seen in a few years, in a situation where there had always been gossip behind backs, nothing life-altering but enough for me to distance myself from her. I took the opportunity to just sit and listen to her and not disclose any more than I wanted to. when I left, I found myself questioning her enthusiasm to see me and its authenticity, when I realized I'm not there to make judgements or assumptions about her motives, just to show up the way I want to, and be unbothered by whichever way the breeze blows.

  • @Moon_child25
    @Moon_child25 17 днів тому

    Where do u announce your lives? Next time I wanna be on time 😍🥹

    • @ArielNiuViews
      @ArielNiuViews 17 днів тому

      Follow my stories + join my community channel on IG 🥰

  • @rahileayar9101
    @rahileayar9101 17 днів тому

    I hope I see you in the next live 😔

  • @jade6957
    @jade6957 17 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing your backstory of how your passion awakened for social dynamics. I, too, have a strong emotional intelligence and always notice people’s intentions different from their words and it can be confusing if you don’t speak, or take action with intent. Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

  • @AleLP8
    @AleLP8 17 днів тому

    yeahh let's reconnect those niurons ・*:.。🧠。.:*・

  • @ArmoredSpeedster
    @ArmoredSpeedster 17 днів тому

    Very insightful

  • @elluna-here
    @elluna-here 17 днів тому

    I kive for your contents girl. You are such a life savor. Thank you for the hard work.

  • @Actuallyjustcooper
    @Actuallyjustcooper 18 днів тому

    I knew I loved you reading the spirit molecule